| Each person feels whole without the other. You enjoy being together however do not need to be together.
Each person feels responsible for his or her own well-being and happiness.
Each person feels responsible for his or her own self-esteem. You feel good about yourself no matter what anyone else thinks.
You both understand the difference between "you", "me", and "we".
Each person can have relationships with other people.
Each person is open and honest in his or her communication.
Each person has the ability to accept the other as he or she is.
Each person is willing to negotiate differences and fight fairly.
Each person has established healthy boundaries and is able to express when those boundaries have been crossed.