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HOW CAN I TELL IF A CHILD IS BEING PHYSICALLY ABUSED?

PHYSICAL ABUSE

Unlike sexual abuse, physical abuse is most often indicated by obvious signs of physical injuries:

Unexplained Bruises and Welts:

        • on the face, lips and mouth.
        • in various states of healing (bruises of different colors, for example, or old and new scars together).
        • on large areas of the torso, back, buttocks or thighs.
        • in clusters, forming regular patterns, or reflective of the article used to inflict them (electrical cord; belt buckle).
        • on several different surface areas (indicating the child has been hit from different directions).
        • appearing as identical marks on both sides of the body.

Unexplained Burns, including:

        • cigar or cigarette burns, especially on the soles of the feet, palms, back or buttocks.
        • immersion or "wet" burns, including glove- or sock-like burns and doughnut-shaped burns on the buttocks or genitalia.
        • patterned or "dry" burns which show a clearly defined mark left by the instrument used to inflict them (e.g. electrical burner).
        • rope burns on the arms, legs, neck or torso.

Unexplained Fractures:

  • to the skull, nose or facial feature.
  • in various stages of healing (indicating they occurred at different times).
  • multiple or spiral fractures.
  • swollen or tender limbs.
  • any fracture in a child under the age of two.
  • Unexplained Lacerations and Abrasions, including:
  • to the mouth, lips, gums or eyes.
  • to the external genitalia.
  • on the backs of the arms, legs or torso.

Unexplained Abdominal Injuries, including:

  • swelling of the abdomen.
  • localized tenderness.
  • constant vomiting.

Human Bite Marks (especially when they appear adult size or are recurrent)

Bald Spots and Scalp Bruises (caused by hair pulling)



Behavioral indicators may also alert a person to the possibility of physical abuse. These behaviors may exist independently or in conjunction with physical indicators.

A physically abused child may:

  • be wary of physical contact with adults (avoid or shrink away from any adult's touch).
  • display extreme behavior (extreme aggressiveness or extreme withdrawal).
  • fear his/her parents.
  • fear going home, or cry when it is time to leave a protected environment.
  • report injuries.
  • seem anxious to please and to let others say and do things to him/her without protest.
  • frequently be late or absent from school.
  • consistently arrive early to school or stay long after it is time to go home.
  • wear extra clothing to conceal injuries.
  • give unbelievable explanations for his/her injuries or claim no knowledge of the source of injuries.
  • seek more than an average amount of affection from other adults.
  • exhibit habit disorders (sucking, rocking, biting or eating disorders).
  • have lags in emotional and intellectual development.

A physically abusive parent or caretaker may:

  • use harsh discipline which does not fit the "offense" or the age of the child.
  • complain that the child cries too much or "causes trouble."
  • be angry or defensive when asked about problems concerning the child, or appear uninterested and unconcerned.
  • offer illogical or unconvincing explanations for a child's injuries.
  • appear cold or unloving toward the child.
  • misuse drugs or alcohol.
  • believe in harsh, physical discipline as the only way to control the child.

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