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Domestic Violence Program

What is battering?

How common is this? - local and national statistics

What help can Hands of Hope give?

Power/Control and Equality Wheels

Beliefs That Contribute to Battering

Safety Planning

Orders for Protection

Harassment Restraining Orders

Financial Help for Crime Victims

Victim Blaming/"Why do Women Stay?"

Safe Home Program

Stalking

Support Groups


WHAT IS BATTERING (DOMESTIC VIOLENCE)?

Domestic violence is the use of abusive, controlling, and/or violent behavior among people who are married, living together, or have ongoing or prior intimate relationship. This behavior can be any combination of physical, sexual, emotional, or psychological control, or may involve the use of threats of violence to control another's behavior.

Domestic Violence may begin with verbal or mental abuse, eventually escalating to physical abuse, which can lead to permanent injury or even death. Once a woman has been hit, the frequency and severity of the abuse is likely to increase over time.

Abusers often use power and control tactics over their partners, such as criticism, mind games, blaming, and economic control. This may result in a feeling of isolation, dependency, lowered self esteem, and a general feeling of "craziness". Often women feel trapped in their situation because they are afraid of future attacks, have little support and understanding from people around them, have few resources, and still may want their relationship to work out.

"You don't have to be bruised to be battered."



In America today, WOMEN are on the edge of violence.

      CONSIDER THESE STATISTICS....

      • Every 15 secondes a women is assaulted and beaten.

      • 4,000,000 women a year are assaulted by their partners.

      • Every day, 4 women are murdered by their husbands or boyfriends.

      • A women is raped every 1.3 minutes.

      • 61% of all rapes are women under 17 years old.

      • 29% of all rapes are women under 11 years old.

      • 1 out of 8 Hollywood films has a rape motif.

      • 92% of women in prison (in the last 10 years) had less than $10,000 a year income.

      • 80% of women in prison have children.

      • Prison terms for killing husbands are twice as long as for killing wives.

      • 93% of women who killed their mates had been battered by them.

      • 67% killed them to protect themselves and their children at the moment of murder.

      • 25% of all crime is wife assault.

      • 60% of all domestic violence victims are beaten while they are pregnant.

      • 70% of men who batter their partners sexually or physically abuse their children.

      • 38% of women have been abused sexually by a adult relative, acquaintance or stranger before they are 18; 28% before the age of 14.

      • The amount spent to shelter animals is 3 times the amount spent to provide emergency shelter to women from domestic violence situations.

      • Domestic violence is the number one cause of emergency room visits by women.

Sources: WAC Stats: The Facts About Women (The New Press); Women's Work Programs, Liz Claiborne, Inc.

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